James Longstreet reflecting back some 30 years later on Lee’s surrender to Grant at the McLean House at Appomattox Court House

“…In glancing backward over the period of the war, and the tremendous and terrible events with which it was fraught, the reflection irresistibly arises, that it might perhaps have been avoided and without dishonor. The flag and fame of the nation could have suffered no reproach had General Scott’s advice, before the outbreak, been followed, “Wayward sisters, depart in peace.” The Southern States would have found their way back to the Union without war far earlier than they did by war. The reclaiming bonds would then have been those only of love, and the theory of government formulated by George Washington would have experienced no fracture. But the inflexible fiat of fate seemingly went forth for war; and so for four long years the history of this great nation was written in the blood of its strong men…”

Doug Santo